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No matter the circumstances, no matter the distance. If the love...
No matter the circumstances, no matter the distance. If the love is real, it will find a way through any hurdles it may encounter.
Uhm hi! So “itslittlebean” submitted a story about her parents finding out she was a...
Uhm hi! So “itslittlebean” submitted a story about her parents finding out she was a little. I just wanted to share my story of my mom finding out that I’m a little, because it was quite similar. I was 18 at the time and living with my parents because I was still in high school. I was out and my mom decided to use my computer. Somehow, she managed to find my tumblr and looked through a lot of it. Later, she found my diapers and my pacis. She lectured me about how disgusting I was and then proceeded to tell me that she puked for hours when she discovered it. She told me I have problems and need to reassess my life and my choices. She blamed it on my Daddy at the time (who she knew as my boyfriend) and said that he tainted my mind with such perversions. She told me it would affect my life and that regressing is unhealthy. She said the fact that I regress means I have a mental deficiency and then grew angry at herself for “raising me incorrectly”. I refused to go to therapy, and repeatedly told her I didn’t need it. I eventually wrote her a letter that explained the little thing and why I liked it, how it made me feel, and how it never affected adult things (ie school etc). She loosened up slightly, but throws away any little stuff she finds in my room. She threw away a lot of things that my Daddy spent money on and left me in tears (and continues to). I don’t know what else to do. And now she’s blaming my bladder issues (that have been a problem of mine since Kindergarten) on my being little. I don’t know what to do or how to handle her anymore. For the most part, we avoid talking about it, but to know that I still disgust her that much upsets me. Her behavior made my relationship with my daddy really rocky for quite a while because I started swearing off anything little due to the guilt I felt. Truly, fetish shaming is as bad as homophobia, but my mom says that that’s nowhere near valid because fetishes (at least mine) are developed and not a trait that you are born with.
I know that there’s a lot of arguments within the ABDL community about whether or not it’s appropriate to compare this fetish/lifestyle to homosexuality. And I know it’s not exactly the same, but there are definite similarities. I don’t know one single ABDL person who chose to be ABDL. At least for me, it’s just a part of who I am. I’m not as happy without it.
I’m sorry your mother has had such a hard time accepting this side of you. My dad also said that he felt like throwing up when he first discovered this side of me.
I have tried messaging back and forth with my mother (while I was still at school) talking about why I am like this and how it’s not hurting any other part of my life. She still thinks that it is wrong and messed up. That is why I’m hoping going to therapy will help, like it did with itslittlebean and with my daddy.
This conflict has definitely put a lot of strain on my little side, but thankfully not a huge amount on my relationship with my daddy. I am so lucky to have such a wonderful supportive man in my life who has constantly been there to reassure me that it is okay to be who I am. Even when my little side is hurting, being with him and talking to him feels safe for me. So, in that way I am truly blessed even through this all.
Thank you so much for sharing your story.
Ariel in a diaper by ~Tommy-ABDL I love this! ^.^
Ariel in a diaper by ~Tommy-ABDL
I love this! ^.^
doctorwho: The Doctor
The Doctor
dreamiedaddy: This was the last part of our conversation before...
This was the last part of our conversation before bed. She missed me and wanted to see me because we could not cam last night. Due to me sending her to bed because she was way too sleepy from not sleeping much the night before. So I surprised her with taking a picture and adding it to the iCloud photo stream album I have set up of me for her. Then told her she got her wish.
Her reaction and response made my heart swell with intense emotion. I feel so lucky and so grateful to have her as my baby girl. I love her so incredibly much.
I love my Daddy <3
I can relate to your parents issues.
about 4 years ago my parents found out that I am a little girl. It was at Christmas time just a couple of months before I turned 22. At that time I had a daddy, and my parents overheard us on the phone, and waited until I wasn’t home to go snooping in my room They found my diapers, my paci, my sippy cups and 2 onesie’s that I had made myself. They immediately confronted me, telling me I should be ashamed of myself and that there must be something mentally wrong with me if I liked acting like a child. They refused to have any type of conversation with me about it that didn’t involve them listing off reasons why it is disgusting, or morally wrong, or calling me and my daddy pedophiles. At the time they were helping me with school as well as paying for the car I was driving, and they told me that if I didn’t start going to a psychologist about my problems then I could forget about them helping me financially anymore. I didn’t know how to stand up to them and tell them that there is noting wrong with me, I just have a lifestyle and fetish that they couldn’t seem to understand, so I went to the psychologist like they wanted. Well, the psychologist was fantastic. She spent two sessions just listening to me talk about why I think I am a little girl at heart, and asked me questions about my daddy and our relationship. After only two sessions, she couldn’t see any reason why my lifestyle choice was a bad one since I have a great head on my shoulders, and there was absolutely nothing degrading or abusive about my relationship with daddy. So we scheduled one more session where I told my parents that I wanted them to come with me. When we went, the psychologist tore my parents a new one, so to speak. She asked them why they thought I was a pedophile, and how they could be so mean and non-supportive of their only child, and what exactly about my lifestyle bothered them, and how did it affect their day to day lives that they felt they needed to force me into therapy. My parents were speechless. I proceeded to tell them that day that being a little made me feel safe and secure, it made me feel happy and fulfilled. I told them about my daddy being very gentle, caring, and supportive and that is why we were together. I told them that the diapers and onesies were more of a sexual thing and that we were never going to speak of my sexuality again, because I am an adult just like them, and there is simply no need to discuss those kinds of things with your parents, ever, unless you are having some sort of real problem. We have never spoken about it again, and we never will.
The only thing I ever changed about my lifestyle and sexuality is that I never bring it to my parents house with me. I lived with them at the time they found out, and since then have moved about 2 hours away. If I ever go to spend any time with them, I leave everything at home except one paci, that I hide really well inside a pair of socks when I am visiting. We never talk about things like that anymore, my parents learned to respect my privacy, and I know that the best way to keep them from being uncomfortable is to just leave the kink at home. It’s only 5 or 6 weeks total every year that I visit them at their house, and my little can understand that sometimes she has to be a big girl and that when I get home I can be as little as I want for as long as I want and it will not affect anyone other than me at all.
I just wanted to share this story with you. I read that your little has been feeling sad and I wanted you to know that you are not alone! Parents have a hard time seeing their children as adults, especially if they deviate from things that are normal. You seem like a very smart girl with a very loving and supportive daddy, and I hope you know that this shall soon pass. Maybe if you see a counselor, you could have your parents in on a session with you to help bring them around to your lifestyle choices. It is always easier to accept things when someone outside of the situation can help clarify that what is going on is both not bad and not unhealthy. I hope your little is all better real soon.
Thank you so much for sharing your story! I really appreciate it. :) I’ll send you a private message as well but I was wondering what type of therapist you went to. My daddy and I have been searching for alternative sexuality therapists because we figure that they would be the most likely to know about infantilism or at least be more open to it.
How well do goodnites hold when they are wet? I'm gonna get some soon :)
For me personally, Goodnites can usually hold about 12 seconds of wetting without any leaks. They can hold more if you distribute the wetting more evenly as well.
Good luck!
I didn't try them yet, I'm waiting until this weekend when my room mates are gone and I can enjoy some little time all by myself!!
Aw well that's very exciting :) I'm sure you will love them! ^.^
which do you think are better quality pull ups or goodnites?
Well Goodnites are pull-ups. But they are also the only kind of pull-up I have tried so I can't really give a good review of any other kinds. Whenever I try a new kind I will let you guys know!
I asked you for advice on buying pull ups for the first time, and I wanted to tell you that I was shopping in Wal-Mart tonight in the kids section, and I walked past them three times before I said oh who cares anymore and I got them! I also got a new baba and 3 new paci's AND some new care bears jammies just to celebrate! Thank you so much for being so sweet and giving me advice!
:O Oh my goodness! I am so proud of you!! Good job ^.^
That's so exciting! Did you try them on yet?
Dear Everyone,
I’m very sorry that I haven’t been so good at responding to messages lately. I haven’t had a lot of time lately and when I have I’ve pretty much been too tired to reply. I’m not ignoring any of you, I promise. I’m going to try to reply to all the messages in my inbox within the next two days, even though tomorrow will be super busy again. If you feel like your message has been lost after that time, please send it again. I don’t mean to ignore any of you.
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anonymouslittlesub: He put a tender kiss in the palm of my hand, and closed my fingers tight. "Make...
He put a tender kiss in the palm of my hand, and closed my fingers tight.
"Make sure to kiss right here before you go to sleep tonight."
I put my hand to my cheek as I drove away still feeling the tingles from his lips.
Kisses were always meant to be portable.
littleelisa: I'm in love with my newly formed curves.
I'm in love with my newly formed curves.
fortheluvofdoms: adaddyandhisprincess: New in ageplay? Do not...
New in ageplay?Do not expect your little one to take initiative, she opened her small sides, it is difficult for her to take the next step - it's up to you as her daddy / dom / mother / master etc.. show her that you have interest in her little self, in different ways!
- Buy a fresh set of cute clothes, a pacifier, a teddy bear etc..:
It shows your little that you are interested and everyone love small gifts and surprises.
- Give your little rules to follow:
Little ones are safe with fixed rules, just like children and animals. It makes them feel safe.
- Give your little closeness, affirmation and love:
Always give your little the attention and love it needs. Remember that your little is very sensitive, much like a real child!
Confirmation is also very important; daring to open their little side arouses much emotion and confusion - you as a father/mother/dom etc. you need to verify that you love your little just as she/he is.
The perfect description!!
-princess
wow, very very good!
stupidurlbecausefuckpeople: the-sweetest-little-girl: My Daddy...
My Daddy measures time in Sesame Streets when I am little
this is the cutest of all things
:O DADDY!!! WANT IT PLEASE!!
:O DADDY!!! WANT IT PLEASE!!
diapersandsecrets: This is so cute. :)
This is so cute. :)
littleelisa: wiggle wiggle~
wiggle wiggle~
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